Published in The Orange Journal·PinnedAre Dragons Her Biggest Fear?What I learned from my daughter about my fears. — My Nine-Year-Old Daughter, Anika Was Assigned to Write an Essay on Fear “What is your greatest fear?” her teacher asked. Sitting at the kitchen table, I helped her brainstorm ideas. I said, “What about sharks, or snakes?” We visit Kona in the summers, and she is often the farthest child out, sitting on her boogie board waiting for a perfect wave. We…Fears And Questions3 min read
Apr 22Creating Time to Write Your BookThere just isn’t enough time to write. When I was young, I dreamed of being a writer. I loved the idea of creating stories. Stories about strong, interesting, loving women who had to endure and overcome. I wanted to write about love and life. I wanted my stories to be…Writers On Writing3 min read
Mar 29Four Ideas to Create a Space of Your Own to WriteAnd why it is important. — Creating space to write, or work on your art is crucial. It tells you that you value what you are doing. Yes, I have a desk, a chair, a table. These tangible items say now let me get to work, let me create. In Virginia Woolf’s book A Room of…The Write Life4 min read
Feb 25To Write, to LoveTo Write, to Love The WRite Life I believed that 2022 was going to be MY year, my birthday being 02/02/2022. Not that I spend much time on numbers, or that sort of thing but I took it as a why not? It’s my turn, right? I’ve paid my dues. …The Write Life2 min read
Jan 25Mothers as Foils (In Writing and in Life)The WRite Life My character, Julie in my manuscript SELF PORTRAIT, as well as her mother Roberta are as real to me as many people in my life. I know them both well. My editor suggested I make Roberta a foil to Julie. I have been developing both these characters…Writing Life5 min read
Jan 8ChastityThere’s a chair in a meadow made out of wood from The Voyager that used to sail from Europe to the Americas. The chair sits in a field of wild irises that bloom throughout the year, in the dry winds of summer, through the chill of fall, into the snows…The Write Life1 min read
Dec 29, 2021Poetry Flashbacks:“Traveling through the Dark,” William E. Stafford The WRite Life Yesterday was difficult. When I say this my mind seeks to place my feelings in perspective. Nothing tragic happened. The kids and I were to fly to Seattle to visit my sister’s family. Slowly the plans we made months ago denigrated. We planned to fly out of…The Write Life4 min read
Dec 10, 2021Snow as ReflectionSnow as Reflection I am happiest when it snows. I am forced in, then inward. Once inward, I don’t just think of myself, but of how difficult and even life-threatening snow has been on women: Women of days past, Russian farmers, Scandinavian mothers, of my pioneer ancestors, and gold rush…The Write Life2 min read
Nov 9, 2021The Military Coup in SudanThe WRite Life On Saturday October 30th, 2021 , I was awakened past midnight. My iPhone’s WhatsApp was dinging with messages. My heart fell with anticipation. There are only a few people who contact me through WhatsApp and one is a Sudanese living in Khartoum. I quickly placed on my…The Write Life4 min read
Oct 25, 2021I Am Going to Be a Tree Climber When I Grow UpThe WRite Life I have never been a tree climber. My daughter, Anika whom I often find high above the ground is awe inspiring to me. She is seven and her haven, her solace is on a tree limb. When she was three, I would hold my breath and stand under her in…The Write Life3 min read